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Dear Twentysomething-year-old Me,

1. When that man you have a crush on asks,"Are you a good girl or a bad girl?" laugh in his face, spin on yourheel and ignore his calls.

2. Wear sunscreen. At least around youreyes and above your currently pert upper lip's cupid's bow.

3. Just because you share blood with peopledoesn't mean you have to give them the time of day if they are hell-bent onmaking you feel small, misunderstood and wrong. You've given them enoughchances. Cut the cord.

4. Sign up for small automatic savings depositsthat kick in every time you get paid. You'll be making down payments on yourown future freedom.

5. Rejection is not a sign that you shouldstop doing what you love. It is married to doing what you love. It should notbe kneecapping you. Embrace it.

6. If you have a problem with a valuedfriend, bite the bullet and talk about it. Don't just disappear on her or him.

7. Tell the truth. People really do senseit when you lie to them, and it makes them distrust you or themselves. It's thedarndest thing.

8. You were raised to think that you shouldbe married well before 30 -- and that everything else you fill your life withadds up to failure if you remain single. That's a giant bucket of steamingdookie. Be choosy. The happiness you're chasing is actually suffusing your liferight now. You will look back on this time very铝锭价格 wistfully when you've got spit-upin your hair and a husband who expects hot meals, a sparkling-clean house andyou to resemble the cutie he married.

9. Reconnect with your gut. I know you wereraised to ignore it, and to first please others. Without a connection铝锭价格 to yourgut, you have no compass. Listen to it. If it squawks, pay attention. The moreyou listen to it, the more you'll avoid messy/self-destructive detours andalign with your own satisfying path.

10. You are so beautiful right now. Yourskin is amazing. Your metabolism is forgiving. You have epic amounts of energyand curiosity. Do not look to others to fuel up your self-esteem. You're madeof awesome. Own it and others will see it.

11. Go easier on your mother. Every singlething that annoys and disappoints you about her will be something you recognizein yourself as you get older. That's one big bakery full of humble pie you'recooking up right now.

12. Don't be competitive. Be collaborative.There's plenty of room at the table.

13. Your dream life is not something thatwi铝锭价格ll appear to you, or not, like an elusive, mythical unicorn. You build yourown specifically perfect life every time you listen to your gut, shake offrejection, honor friends, embrace choosiness, feed your savings account andrecognize your own arrogance.